"If we cannot and will not confront one another in love, we will go on being the prisoners of our own illusions. We are afraid to hurt and to offend, so we remain silent and call our silence love. What we desperately need - and what true love instills - is a greater sense of horror at the sight of lies eating away the souls of those around us. Love constrains us to speak, not to remain silent; for if zeal for God's house and the purity of His word does not consume us, the spirit of the lie will." ~ Art Katz
I may be quoting from this book (The Spirit of Truth) off and on for a while, great stuff!